What You Can & Cannot Do in Life

What you can do in life is

1) Choose your values, goals and way of life
2) Choose who you want to have relationships with in life
3) Inspire and help others to live better more meaningful lives should they wish to do so

What you cannot do in life is

1) Choose other people's values, goals and way of life
2) Force people to be in or not be in certain relationships
3) Force others to live the life that you think is best for them