To Understand

To understand others, one must put to one side one’s own beliefs and values and delve into the values and beliefs of the other, with curiosity and without judgement. 

Motivating Through Positive Emotions

You can always get people to do something by creating guilt, fear, shame or whatever negative emotion that people want to escape and so yield. But can you create a deep seeded desire for people to do something, not out of fear, guilt or shame but out of positive emotions of purpose, passion and the desire to do good? 

Biased Opinions

You will continue to always have your own biased, limited perspective or idealised opinions. There is nothing fundamentally wrong with these so long as you don't see your opinions as absolute truths and not impose them on others. There is also no need to fight off your biased perspectives, but to notice them and with curiosity understand them. They will eventually develop and evolve to something more effective and although absolute truth will never be reached, one can approach a more harmonised holistic perspective on life.  

Value in Things

There is some value in most things, but are you going to sacrifice what is of high value for what is of lower value?

Actions and Inactions Creates A World

One’s actions and inactions affects the world in both positive and negative ways that can ripple through time and space

Dealing with Failure

Never will you be free and happy and growing until you become comfortable with the fact that you will fail sometimes and that is totally ok - that is how you’re going to learn and grow.

Dealing with Incompetence

Never will you be free and happy until you become comfortable with the fact that you will in some environments be incompetent, and that’s totally okay. 

If You Are Love

If you are Love, if you are contained in Love and Love is contained in You, then how could you ever take offence, how could you ever feel down. If you are truly contained in Love and Love is contained in You.
Drown yourself in this vast Ocean. The Ocean that consumes all bitterness and blooms with serenity. There is no other Ocean that can do this.
This Ocean is the boundless, formless Love.